Watch your love

Ended up in an upset quarrel with her bf. but however i saw a msg in her tag board frm her bf, saying that he is sorry n he still loves her. Hmm personally upon seeing this msg, i felt alot.. knowing that both of them will not last long but the guy still insist of hanging in there. She's giving up, thats wad i can feel, but however thats definitely not the end. Towards each r/s if a person ever gave in feelings for each other, its a sure thing both of them will leave a deep impression of each other even after break up. (Unfortunately that doesnt work on me.)

Feelings are very special. Its makes a person ignore wadever shit and become very ignorant towards their surrounding. For example, i like this girl, in return this girl likes me too, eventhough we knew each other less den 1mth but "feelings" just brings us together FIRST, w/o even knowing much other each another we became couples. So how long will this last? Have we ever thought of hw well can we go along? And how long can this "go-along" last? Giving in time n again makes feelings blend, finding out more n more abt the other party makes u even headache.

So how do we find a true love? I personally dun think there's a true love. Its juz how well u are willing to giv in and take from him, and vice versa. No matter how big or serious is a quarrel, think after each quarrel whose right n whose wrong. Forgive and Forget. If you insist ur way, you're being demanding.. unreasonable, wad if the other party does the same? Who win? The answer is both LOSE. Chances u said u gave him/her again again and again. Why do u hav to give him/her chances if u love him? U have to accept him as a whole even with his flaws, nobody is perfect, not me, not u, and not him. U hav ur flaws, but some pple like u because of ur imperfection. And thats y i said if u know a partner that is less den a month, how well can u know him??
-He can bring u smile all the time, how long can he do that?
-He can listen to ur woes all the time, how long can he do that?
-He can say he promise u this n that, how well do u understand him to trust that he will do that?
-You feel he is the one, time will prove it to u.
-You feel that he loves u, time will prove it to u when he got a new gf.

So y is it all stories? We all learn as we grow.. learn to understand wad is right n wrong. How to see n judge a person. I'm not a good lover, i could merely make it for my love life. But as these yrs past by i understand love is the someone in ur life that will be able to take care of u, care for u whole heartedly, even at the darkest n toughest times he/she will nv leave u and most imptly able to grow old with u feed u when u r sick, talk to u when u're bored. He/she do not have to make u smile all the time, do not need to give promises, but u know definitely when u need him, he is always by ur side. So dont b a spoilt kid anymore, dun throw ur tantrums any O how. Learn to understand n talk to each other more..

dedicated to Little Miss G.